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2011-02-08 13-22-45

Help me with my wife I am really into alot of kinky stuff and I am naturally very dominant. The problem is that my wife is resisting me on alot of things. I would love to be her master but she just wont submit to me. Everytime I try to "dominate" her she resists big time and it just gets ugly. I've been trying to get her into it for 5 years and nearly no progress has been made. Anybody have any Ideas?
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2011-02-11 4-03-34-

Is she into kink at all, or is it just the submission part she's having a hard time with? If she likes kink, maybe get into that mutually without doing the whole D/s roles.
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2011-02-12 18-22-28

How do you bring it up? You say you try to dominate her, do you talk to her about it before hand? If she's not used to it and you just spring it on her, then it's no wonder she gets upset
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    2011-02-18 21-34-35

    instead of pushing it on her have you tried talking to her about your desires before trying to make her your sub? Communication goes further than forcing your way into a dominate role....you may be SOL...she may just not be into it...
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    2011-02-21 9-53-56-

    We have talked and talked and talked Hundreds of conversations have been had over the last 5 years on the subject, never does any good. I would understans if she was dom but thats not the case either
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    gavel

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    2011-03-19 17-27-34

    well then... it sounds to me that this kink is yours al ..she doesn't want to be a sub or dom, so there is no "helping" her or the situation....just live vicariously through the forum....
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    mccowan

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    2011-04-25 2-00-03-

    She may not be into a power exchange at all. In this case, Inked, is on the right track. Can you just live with kinky sex in the bedroom, and no domination outside of it?
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    2011-07-06 10-59-24

    If talking doesn't do any good WHAT in the hell makes you think trying to dominate her when she's unwilling is going to do any better? If she's just not into kink, then there's no way you're going to change her mind. Pushing it onto her against her will may change her mind about your marriage however. What sexual interests do you share? Can you start over with a clean slate from there and enjoy your common interests, then grow from there?
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    2011-08-15 2-17-12-

    Trying to dominate someone will not work. They have to be willing to give you their submission.
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    2011-09-19 1-49-49-

    domination is a gift you can't make someone submit if its not her nature
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  • Alyce

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    2011-11-15 9-00-29-

    Submission is the gift You can be as dominant as you wat but unless she "gives" you her submission your not going to be dominating her.
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    2012-01-06 20-53-03

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    2012-01-11 1-51-53-

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    2012-03-11 11-43-51

    Shouldn't that be... Yes MA'AM!
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    2012-10-09 10-22-17

    Yes, stop trying You can't force her to be your submissive no matter how much you desire it or how hard you try.
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  • Deonne

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    2012-11-13 1-04-50-

    The more you push, the more she will resist. Maybe it's not her nature to be submissive. It isn't something you can force on some
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    2012-11-26 5-36-43-

    She says she want to but just cant do it She said she just cant give up control like that. But she has never given me full control. Like she doesnt trust me. Not sure what to make of it
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    2013-01-25 20-58-01

    Naughty Daddy? this is part x of my x cents Maybe particular words such as Master/Dom, slave/sub is so weird in her thought process that it scares her to give up such control, even to You as her Hubby. So, maybe a change in Your approach is in order. Lots of vanillas (where did they come up with that word anyway?) think that that BDSM is for freaks, that it has to involve harsh pain, that it has to mean that the subbie is no more then an airhead that cannot think for themselves. So many misconceptions. To some, a Master/sub relation is a total exchange of power x/x, To some it may be for the kinky sexual games but wouldn't necessary involve other areas of their lives, To some it maybe be for the bondage and disipline part of it w/o sex involved, although i think that is more rare. Each of us are different in our wants and needs, there is no right or wrong way, just the way that we each want this part of our lives to be. Sooooo, my thought's for a very mild introduction to bdsm? and only a thought...okay? Maybe You shouldn't it bdsm yet to her or expect her to You Master...that may be just be too hard for her to comprehend..maybe You could start very slowly and introduce her to very easy bdsm play in the bedroom, after all, sexual play can be fullfilling bdsm or vanilla wise, we all like sex, well most do. So maybe this is a way to introduce her. If more then just bdsm kinky sex is what You desire, that can come later. Plan a date with Your wife for some alone time, let her know a few days ahead of time so she can take care of whatever she needs to take care of. You set the scenery up Yourself. I'd start preparation a couple of days before hand, start "buttering" her up, compliment, compliment, compliment, assure her of Your need for her, that her body is perfect in Your eyes, that You are so happy that she belongs to You, pay attention to her when she's talking, when she's standing at the sink, stand behind her whisper & tell her how much she turns You on, kiss her softly on her neck and then just walk away, keep touching her lighty through the days, sometimes lingering, teasingly..but not groping. continued next post
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    2013-02-02 22-20-00

    Same issue here bro....I dont see it as a problem....I myself take care of my needs for a little wilder sex other ways....
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    2013-10-02 11-47-06

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  • nagata

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    2013-10-25 12-42-59

    She explained it plain english IMO Translation=Not going to happen, stop trying to make it a reality.
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    2013-11-20 0-04-06-

    I can get where she is coming from.... I cannot give in completely. I have tried, and tried. I love the thought of it, but when push comes to shove, my gut says no way. I even made contact with a Dom, who trains subs and Doms, trying to gain some insight as to how I may do this, but the gut wins every time! I want to in the worst way. I just can't, even though I trust Hubby. My head says yes, just do it., but I can't.
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    2013-12-08 20-01-27

    maybe suggest bringing in another sub one that you can dominate and let her see the interaction she may warm to it or she may like dominating a sub with you
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    2013-12-21 21-10-42

    That would be amazing to bring a sub in that i could dominate in front of her. If she wanted to help me dominate that would be awesome too. But she wont share me. Wont let me have anything to do with another girl.
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